School-Age Kids
Once they enter theirschool-age years, many children seem ready to take on the world. But as they exercise their independence, "big kids" need their as parents much as ever. Grade school is an important turning point in children's physical and emotional development. Kids may be inclined to push boundaries while at the same time needing them to feel secure.
Learn best practices for protecting school-age kids' health and safety. We also share ideas for disciplining kids, helping them with school andsocial issues, andestablishing good habitsthat can last a lifetime.
Time For School
Frequently Asked Questions
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Colds,flu, stomach bugs, and other viruses—includingCOVID-19—can run rampant in schools.Cut down on sick daysby teaching kids to wash their hands before and after eating or using the bathroom.Maintaining a healthy weight can also be a challenge: nearly 1 in 5 U.S. schoolchildren haveobesity.Discuss nutritional and fitness strategies with your child's pediatrician if that's a concern for your child. Behavioral issues, which are more common in children ages 6 and 11 than any other age group, merit a visit to the pediatrician (or a child psychologist), too.
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Kids go through astonishing physical changes in elementary and middle school. They'll grow about 2.5 inches every year until they hit a growth spurt in early adolescence. You'll start to seeearly signs of puberty, including pubic hair and the growth of sex organs, starting around age 8 or 9 for girls and age 10 or 11 for boys.They also get a whole new set of teeth! Between ages 6 or 7 and 12 or 13, children lose 20 teeth and grow back 28 teeth (32 counting wisdom teeth that may develop in early adulthood).
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Kids need about 1,600 to 2,200 calories per day during their elementary years, depending on how active they are.According toMyPlate guidelines(which have replaced the Food Pyramid) fruits and veggies should make up half of their meals, and a balance of whole grains (brown rice, whole-wheat pasta) and lean proteins (chicken, fish) should make up the other half.Two to three servings oflow-fat milk, yogurt, or cheese help children get essential calcium, which is key for bone growth, and Vitamin D, which helps the body absorb calcium.
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It's normal—and healthy—for kids this age to eat four or five times a day. Since they are growing and active, they will be hungry between meals. In fact, snacks may account for one-quarter of their calories a day.Just make sure they arehealthy, filling snacks. Good choices have a mix of carbohydrates and protein—think a whole-grain bagel with low-fat cream cheese, a banana with peanut butter, or a hard-boiled egg with carrot sticks.
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One of the most effective strategies for this age group is boundary-based discipline, which includessetting clearly defined limits, communicating expectations frequently, and following through onconsequences.Reinforcing good behavior with praiseis also an effective way to improve behavior.
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Children have thecognitive abilityto understand the connection between actions and consequences between ages 3 to 5.But it's important to define exactly what yourexpectations和将会带来怎样的后果不是foll吗owing them. Early and frequent communication with kids and consistent follow-through when they slip up are keys to making consequence-based discipline work.
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Four-year-oldsare starting toexercise their independence, which may inspire them to test limits.Kids at this age group can grasp expectations, so letting them know potential consequences for bad behavior—not getting their iPad for a day if they used it when not allowed, for instance—and then following through can be effective.For the same reason,time-outs in a quiet placewhere children can reflect on what they did wrong also work well.
Key Terms
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Developmental Stages
Developmental stages are periods of childhood during which specific abilities, characteristics, or behavior patterns appear. The developmental stages of childhood are usually divided up into five groups: toddlers (1and2-year-olds), preschoolers (3,4, and5-year-olds)、学龄的孩子(6,7,8, and9-year-olds), tweens (10,11, and12-year-olds), and teens (13,14,15,16,17, and18-year-olds).
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Homeschooling
An increasingly popular alternative to traditional school,homeschooling包括设置an educational program for your child that allows them to learn in your own house. Parents who homeschool their kids say they do so because of safety concerns about school environments, dissatisfaction with the quality of instruction at school, or a desire to supplement the curriculum with religious teachings.
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Kids Scouting
Boy scouts and girl scouts are greatextracurricular activity choicesfor kids who enjoy nature and problem-solving. Children earn badges for certain accomplishments, like the mastery of an outdoor survival skill or a community service project. Research conducted by a Tufts University team in partnership with Boy Scouts of America’s Cradle of Liberty Council shows scouting helps develop positive character traits like hopefulness, helpfulness, and kindness.
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Kids Tutoring
Offered by both schools and private companies, kids' tutoring services help children excel in academic subjects outside of the classroom. Teachers usually suggest a tutor if a child needs extra support learning certain concepts. If your child has a diagnosed learning disability and you have developed anIndividualized Education Plan (IEP)with the school, they are entitled tofree tutoringif necessary. Kids from low-income households may also qualify for free tutoring without a specified learning disability under the Every Student Succeeds Act (ESSA).
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Child Milestones
Developmental milestonesare characteristics or skills that are typically acquired or achieved by a certain age. Developmental milestones typical of the early school-age years include losing teeth, being able to skip,learning to read, working cooperatively in groups, andforming friendships.
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Child Discipline
There are somechild discipline methodswith a track record of success in both research and the real world. They includepositive discipline,这依赖于赞美鼓励良好的行为;boundary-based discipline, which emphasizes clear and frequent limit-setting; andbehavior modification, which leans on the consistent enforcement of both positive and negative consequences. There is no one right way to discipline kids, but there are wrong ways.Spanking themor screaming at them is not only ineffective, but can also lead to lasting psychological problems.