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Conception seems like a little miracle, but there are several known factors that influence whether you get pregnant or get your period any given month. Your age,menstrual cycle quirks, and even yourstress levelsall play a role in your ability to conceive.
If you want to get pregnant, it's helpful to know how your period patterns or lifestyle choices may affect your fertility. Better understanding yourreproductive systemcan also make you more in tune with your health in general. Learn things you can do to increase your chances of conceiving when the timing is right for you.
Getting Pregnant
Frequently Asked Questions
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First, plan apreconception visitto an OBGYN who can advise you about discontinuing birth control and charting your menstrual cycle. Starting afertility calendarand sharing it with your healthcare provider can help you both understand when you are ovulating (usually about halfway between your periods). Having sex every day or two during yourfertile window—the period five days before you ovulate andone day after—increases your chances of getting pregnant.If you have irregular periods or are unsure when you ovulate, have sex at least every two or three days if possible.
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Don't smoke. Research shows women who smoke are 60% more likely to have infertility than non-smokers.Cigarette smoke may affect male fertility too by reducing sperm count.Avoidtoo much caffeine. One or two cups of coffee a day is fine, but more than five is linked to reduced fertility.When having sex, lay off certain lubricants: K-Y Jelly, olive oil, and even saliva keep sperm from moving efficiently in the female reproductive tract.Instead, use a lubricant that is labeled fertility-friendly, or ask a healthcare provider for suggestions.
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No magic pill makes you get pregnant. There's little evidence that any vitamin or herb improves fertility.Somesupplementsmay actually harm your health, so don't take any without talking to your healthcare provider first. If you are struggling to conceive after six months or a year, you can see afertility specialist, who may prescribeClomid (clomiphene)if you infrequently or never ovulate. Clomid is a common fertility drug that can stimulate regular ovulation, allowing you to more easily time sex when you are most fertile.It's important to note that Clomid will only help if the issue is female ovulation.
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In general, theolder you get, the lower your chances of getting pregnant, because both the quantity and quality of your eggs dip. One in five people in their 30s successfully conceive when trying to get pregnant, but just one in 20people in their 40sare able to. However, if you are a healthy, regularly ovulating person who's still at least five to 10 years away from menopause, pregnancy is a possibility.An OBGYN or fertility specialist can talk with you and examine you to better assess—and provide guidance for improving—your reproductive health.
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Most folks assigned female at birth (AFAB) know to pee after sex to prevent a UTI.If you're trying to get pregnant, however, urinating after sex will not harm your chances. It's important to remember that when you're having baby-making sex, sperm is ejaculated near the cervix. Sperm move quickly, so despite the effects of gravity, they will still reach your uterus and fallopian tube even if you pee after sex.In addition, because of your anatomy, the urethra does not exit near the vaginal canal, so it's highly unlikely that urine or seminal fluid will mix.
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The fastest way to get pregnant is to watch forsigns of ovulationand have frequent sex around that time. Havingslippery, egg-white-like cervical discharge, which has a texture that helps sperm move efficiently and survive, is one of the surest signs you are about to ovulate.Consider investing in over-the-counterovulation predictor kits (OPKs), which detect luteinizing hormone (LH) that surges right before you ovulate. Although evidence is limited, a review of research suggests OPKs could boost your chance of getting pregnant by up to 40%.
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About 80% of couplesconceive within 12 monthsof trying, so if you aren't pregnant despite having frequent and well-timed sex for a year (or half a year, if you are over 35), you may have fertility issues.You can't conceive if you don't ovulate. Signaled byirregular periodsor absent periods,anovulationis often connected to being very overweight or underweight, exercising excessively, experiencing very high stress, or having PCOS.Painful periods or pelvic pain can also be a sign of infertility. Up to 30% of conception failure is linked tomale infertility, but because there are no obvious signs, it's a good idea for your male partner to get asemen analysisif you can't get pregnant after many months.Additionally, 30% of couples will not know why they can't conceive, and may not have any signs or symptoms other than not being able to get pregnant.
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Key Terms
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Tokophobia (fear of pregnancy)
Tokophobia is an intense fear ofgiving birth. Unlike typical worries over how labor and delivery will go, tokophobia can cause panic attacks, sleep troubles, and avoidance of sex when considering the possibility of a first pregnancy or a pregnancy after astressful earlier childbirth experience.If your dread of giving birth is affecting your quality of life, a psychologist or therapist can help.
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Ovulation
排卵过程中,卵巢法则ase an egg. The most common day to ovulate is 14 days after the start of your last period, but you may ovulate a little sooner or later than that and still have a normal menstrual cycle.
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Luteal Phase
The period between when you ovulate and when you have your period is the luteal phase. During this time, the egg travels through thefallopian tubesto the uterus. If that egg links up with sperm, you may conceive. The follicle (fluid-filled sac) in one of your ovaries that released an egg that cycle secretes hormones to sustain a fertilized egg. The luteal phase is typically around 12 to 14 days. Some scientists theorize that ashorter luteal phasemay contribute to fertility problems.
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Cervical Mucus
Cervical mucus is the fluid secreted by glandsnear your cervixthat you may see on your underwear on any given day. The texture of your cervical mucus will change as your hormones fluctuate over the course of your menstrual cycle. When you have slippery, egg-white-like cervical mucus, you are in your fertile window.
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Fertility
Fertility is the ability to get pregnant naturally. Fertility peaks in your 20s and then declines, especiallyafter age 35. About 12% to 15% of couples will face infertility—the inability to conceive after one year of unprotected sexual intercourse.Getting to a healthy weight, quitting smoking, and taking the ovulation-stimulating drug Clomid can help reverse fertility problems in some people.
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Egg Freezing
Egg freezing, orcryopreservation, is achoice to have a fertility specialist collect eggsfrom your ovaries to preserve until you are ready to get pregnant. Generally, the younger you are, the more viable your eggs are. When you freeze your eggs in your 20s or early 30s, they will still be “young” when thawed, even years later.